Are girls better than boys??girls do better than boys?girls got something boys ain't got??
"Many people learn and asking whether the differences between boys and girls came from ,one side they said the differences was dominated by nature or our heredity and one side they said that those differences are from environment,and the other side said that those came from both of the side nature and nurture but i agreed with the last one"yes,there are differences but why we take those differences as comparisons??we can take them as behavior,as characters and as nature but not as their weakness and any sequester.
No doubts India is changing now but still education for girls in Indian society is not so good.Instead about 70% Indian families are tranquil-ed about girl's education.If there are one boy and one girl in family,they will send their son to reputed school and daughter to ordinary school by disdaining their talent.They have a thought in their mind that boys needs more education.
But if we follow the lines by "The Times of India",we got the reality.
"New Delhi: Boys were once again left behind by the the girls in the CBSE 12th board exams in the Central Board of Secondary Education (CBSE) class 12 examinations, results of which were declared Monday in seven regions across the country.
The pass percentage of girls was 86.93 percent, compared to 77.83 percent for boys, a CBSE spokesperson said........"
No doubt girls are doing good in studies from past three or four years but still they are not getting the perfect laudatory as they deserve.
I can't say that its true for all Indian families.Sundry families are giving best of best education to their daughters but they are too few in comparison of above.
As i surfed a link where girls are compared to "Endangered species of India"
Girls in India have always got the respect that they deserved, but they never got an equal status with boys. Girls have been considered inferior and always thought that they are meant for raising a family, look after kids, take care of the in-laws, cook food etc. Most parents, in India still don’t think that girls can take care of them in the future, and ‘most’ is a very under rated word here, almost all share the same mentality. This is the root cause of why so many girls are dying each day.
According to NGO's-its hard to spot a gal now ,That's because there are only 927 girls for every 1,000 boys under the age of 6. And most of these 927 girls are taken out of school early so that they can help in the fields or work as child labor to support the family. Girls in India have always got the respect that they deserved, but they never got an equal status with boys. Girls have been considered inferior and always thought that they are meant for raising a family, look after kids, take care of the in-laws, cook food etc. Most parents, in India still don’t think that girls can take care of them in the future, and ‘most’ is a very under rated word here, almost all share the same mentality. This is the root cause of why so many girls are dying each day.
Here are a few reasons why so many parents in India choose to kill a girl child before they are even born:
- Over smart girls – Yeah, seriously look around; are the girls of today setting a good example? Getting pregnant before marriage. Many from the western countries will feel what’s wrong in that, but hey this is India. If a father finds out that his unmarried daughter is pregnant, then he will kill her and commit suicide. So, you can now understand why not many parents would like to have an ultra modern girl. Having bad boy vs. having a bad girl. You can always kick out a boy who has turned bad, and forget everything, but the same can’t be done with your girl. If you kick out your girl, people around you will come and tell you what your girl is doing around, and enjoy every word of the conversation
- Useless tv programs – Some Tv programs shows us how our life will become miserable if someone have girls.
- Wrong mentality – Girls are responsibility, ‘Paraya dhan’ others property. So, we need to just raise them, waste your money on them and expect nothing in return, just find a good husband for her and get her married. But if someone have a boy, he can have a future guaranteed. Interesting thoughts really, I mean, girls are like an investment where a person put his entire life into it, and finally when it will be matured, he just need to pay a huge amount, ‘dowry’ and get rid of her. So its like pay, pay and pay, and finally pay more and get rid of her, this is not a very good investment idea.
- Traditions and customs – India has a lot of customs, which are against girls. We have got rid of many however on a practical level, dowry is very much functional.
However, some measures are already taken, now in India you cannot do a sonography and find out if someone expecting a girl or a boy. I still think for a threat so big, the steps that are taken are too little....
Isn’t it time that we put an end to this barbaric discrimination and gave girls a chance to achieve their full potential??
